7 Things you keep as Secret of Life

SARASIJ MAJUMDER

1- Your Goals & Plans

The very first thing that you need to keep private is your big plans and goals. There are very strong reasons to keep all this stuff private.

 As there is a famous saying “keep your hustle private and let your success make the noise”.

2- Money in Your Bank

Never ever share your ESTATE with anybody. However, your CA, Banker, investment adviser etc. will OBVIOUSLY know a large part of it—but don’t inform them more than necessary.

Also—use multiple Banks, and multiple Demat accounts. This way, the information to others will remain PARTIAL.

3- Your Secrets

This point is also of prime importance... Your secrets are the most important elements that must need to be kept private. This is due to several reasons. The very first thing is that your secret is secret till it is limited to you. If you share it with someone else, it is no longer a secret.

You have to understand one thing that your relationship with someone doesn’t remain the same all the time during your life span. It may go down.

These are not books’ words. This happens in real life. So, what you have to do is to keep control over your emotions, and maintain secrecy. Because it is also a famous saying that any decision made in a state of emotion is very dangerous. So, keep your secrets limited to yourself only.

4- Your Life Partner’s Secrets

Your love life is also a very important thing that you need to keep private. You don’t do something just for the sake of attention or fame. You remain sincere to your partner and keep him/her away from the gazes of people. Also, one other benefit is that you don’t need other people’s opinions or approval on your life partner. And you should believe that your life partner is not  a piece of exhibition. There is nothing unreal in your relationship. Your relationship is based on pure love and sincerity.

Abusing the secrets of your partner, some jealous person may try his best to break your relationship. A negative person will try to impose his opinions on you. He will inject some negative insecurities into your mind. These negative vibes that had entered in your subconscious mind, will make you feel that your life partner is not right. This is another reason to keep your love life completely under secret.

And one benefit that you get is that it becomes easier for you to break up when, and if such a situation arises. You don’t have to think again and again about this. Because you have kept that relationship private and now you can break it secretly.

5- Your Weakness

Your weaknesses are the most important things that you need to keep secret. There is no need to explain the reasons behind this point. You know when you tell your weaknesses to a person, you are cutting your own foot. You are telling people where to attack you. People are always in search of your weak points. And when you yourself talk about your all weaknesses, you are just inviting people to harm you. Seemingly, you will sense comfort after sharing your weaknesses with a person. But this short time relief is followed by an unending danger. You will soon understand when a lot of damage has been done.

You have to understand that you have to hide your insecurities and defects hidden from people. There is no need to tell your weak sides to someone even to your most trusted person.

Also, you can overcome your shortcomings when you work on them privately. When people are aware of your shortcomings then even after removing them, people don’t believe you. They judge you by your weaknesses ignoring all your strong points. These shortcomings are permanently attached to your personality. You can remove them from your personality but not from people’s minds. So, keep your weaknesses private and work in silence to overcome them.

6- Bragging About Your Success

Bragging about your own success is a very dark thing. There is a number of problems that start taking place when you Bragg on your success. What actually happens is you work very silently and dream about your life after you get success. These are just sparks that start adding up in you. And when you get success, you must keep control of yourself. You just have to hustle properly. Success will itself come out of the box and tell people about itself.

But when you yourself Bragg on your success, you lose your respect.

7- Act of Kindness & Good Deeds

This is a plus point. The one most important thing that you have to keep secret is your act of kindness and good deeds. This will help you remain real. And a humble person is the real one. If you want true happiness, try to do good things in secret.

You should do this just for your own self, not to get  praise from people. When you do this as a publicity stunt, this doesn’t increase your respect but people start hating you. Because people only love, and respect down-to-earth sort of persons.

You can just tell this to some people just to inspire them also to do this. Not to make them appreciate you. Keep your good deeds private.

NOTE:-- BASED ON MY LIFE'S EXPERIENCE.